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Temptation, temptation...

Suppose it's September, and Back to School time. 

And yet, those Mediterranean beaches are more beautiful than ever, the crowds have thinned, the airfares are low; and the Caribbean's on sale; and what a super time to go to Disney World...

If you're tempted to take your kids out of school for travel in September, or spring-time, or early December before Christmas vacation, you're not alone:  

According to an industry poll, 16 million parents "let children miss school to gain travel experience".

Travel Industry of America travel poll

Before the teachers panic: in most cases (43%) the amount of school missed was just one day-- and in another 29%, a mere two days were missed.  Only 11% of traveling truants missed more than one week. 

Points to consider
Any time you take your kids out of school, you need to weigh the costs and benefits. 

  • Much depends on the grade level of the child.  While a parent might have no qualms about pulling a child out of kindergarten for a couple of weeks... with a high school student, this might be unthinkable.  

  • A second factor is time of year: for example, in the week before Christmas, my kids in school seem to mainly make crafts and sing carols. 
  • Also, one has to consider the child's school performance: certainly a child already struggling to learn should not be taken away from class.
  • And of course length of absence is critical: an absence of several weeks in Grades 3 and up will mean major catch-up, awkward re-entry, and the possibility of missing extra-curricular activities for an entire term. 
  • A final factor is the educational value of the travel it might be worthwhile for a child to miss school for a week in London-- but not for a week in Disneyland.

see:  Learning Vacations: Trips that Teach

The Big Picture 
Many of us, in parenting, have a tendency to "sweat the small stuff" too much. While it is indeed possible that a child skipping school for several days might miss a crucial unit on long division, typically kids do catch up when they miss school due to strep throat or chicken pox.  

Interestingly, according to the TIA travel poll:

- "46% of parents likely to take their kids out of school had a similar travel opportunity when they were a child."

-Also: "Parents who have studied for or attained a masters degree are more likely to let their children miss school to travel."

These figures seems to paint a picture of well-educated parents who believe that the gains from family travel experiences may justify some truancy. 

Consider the teachers too
Finally: if you do decide to travel during school days, remember to consider your children's teachers, and the extra work that your child's re-entry to school may mean for them.  

And definitely, for any extended absence, discuss the trip with teachers before you go: perhaps your kids can make a presentation, or do a project, based on their travels once they're back in class; perhaps the teacher will want them to do certain work-- in math, for example-- while they're gone.

By and large, my kids' teachers have been open-minded about school-time travels, but we did have one situation where my Grade Five son paid some heavy dues after a five-week trip in Europe. (A teacher had sent along a formatted journal which caused so much stress it was spoiling our trip. I finally said, "Stop the journal, I'll explain to your teacher"-- a strategy that didn't work. ) 

Bottom line: talk to your teachers; weigh your pluses and minuses; and then step back to see the Big Picture. Am I glad we took that five-week trip to Europe? You bet. And our kids are still  reaping educational benefits, in school projects etc.


 
Happy traveling....
         
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