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Temptation, temptation...
Suppose it's September, and Back to School time.
And yet, those Mediterranean beaches are more beautiful
than ever, the crowds have thinned, the airfares are low; and the
Caribbean's on sale; and what a super
time to go to Disney World...
If you're tempted to take your
kids out of school for travel in September, or spring-time, or early December
before Christmas vacation, you're not alone:
According
to an industry poll, 16 million parents "let children miss school to
gain travel experience".
Before the teachers panic: in most cases (43%) the amount of school missed was just one day-- and in another 29%, a mere two days were missed. Only 11% of traveling truants missed more than one week.
Points to consider
Any
time you take your kids out of school, you need to weigh the costs and
benefits.
see: Learning Vacations: Trips that Teach |
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The Big Picture
Many of
us, in parenting, have a tendency to "sweat the small
stuff" too much. While it is indeed possible that a child skipping school
for several days might miss a crucial unit on long division, typically kids do catch
up when they miss school due to strep throat or chicken pox.
Interestingly, according to the TIA travel poll:
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- "46% of parents likely to take their kids out of school had a similar travel opportunity when they were a child." -Also: "Parents who have studied for or attained a masters degree are more likely to let their children miss school to travel." |
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Th
ese figures seems to paint a picture of well-educated parents who believe that the gains from family travel experiences may justify some truancy.Consider the
teachers too
Finally: if you do decide to travel during school days, remember to consider
your children's teachers, and the extra work that your child's re-entry to
school may mean for them.
And definitely, for any extended absence, discuss the trip with teachers before you go: perhaps your kids can make a presentation, or do a project, based on their travels once they're back in class; perhaps the teacher will want them to do certain work-- in math, for example-- while they're gone.
By and large, my kids' teachers have been open-minded about school-time travels, but we did have one situation where my Grade Five son paid some heavy dues after a five-week trip in Europe. (A teacher had sent along a formatted journal which caused so much stress it was spoiling our trip. I finally said, "Stop the journal, I'll explain to your teacher"-- a strategy that didn't work. )
Bottom line: talk to your teachers; weigh your pluses and minuses; and then step back to see the Big Picture. Am I glad we took that five-week trip to Europe? You bet. And our kids are still reaping educational benefits, in school projects etc.
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